Imagine yourself as a young man living 10,000 years ago in a tribe of 50 people. There’s a dominant, charismatic, and powerful male leader whom you admire, respect, and fear. Every time you see him, you avert your gaze to avoid direct eye contact.

Lately, you’ve been contemplating becoming a leader yourself. You envision being admired by others and leading hunts for food. You’ve also noticed changes within you—your temper and emotions are harder to control, hair is growing on your face, and your muscles are developing.

One day, while walking alone, you come across a familiar waterfall with a pond below. In the pond is a beautiful young woman you’ve admired for many years, bathing. Today, she appears different to you. An unfamiliar feeling arises—an overwhelming desire to be with her in a way you don’t understand.

As you approach her, she turns and sees you. For a split second, time seems to freeze as you look into each other’s eyes. You realize she’s feeling something too. You walk toward each other, driven by a deep instinct.

As you get closer, she smiles and looks at your face. You reach out to touch her arm. This time, the touch feels very unusual. Your pulse quickens, and you feel the hairs on your body stand up.

Suddenly, you sense others behind you. You turn to see the tribe’s leader and many adults, including your parents. An instinctive fear strikes deep into your stomach. The leader looks directly at you with a gaze that makes you fear for your life.

“The boy must die!” he yells.

Your mother protests, “No, he’s just a boy; he’s done nothing wrong!” But her cries fall on deaf ears.

The leader and several men take you away, blindfold you, and bring you to a hidden cave—a place you’ve only heard stories about. Over the next couple of days, four other young men are brought to the cave. It seems you’ve all been sentenced to death.

They force you to eat putrid vegetables and rub sticky fruit pulp over your bodies. Then they leave, sealing the cave with large logs. Alone and terrified, you begin to hallucinate from the drugs mixed in the food. Ants, attracted by the fruit pulp, swarm over you, biting and causing immense pain.

After what feels like weeks of torture, you believe you’re dead. But then, a hand pulls you up. It’s the leader, standing over you with a new painted design on his face.

“Am I dead?” you ask.

“Yes,” he says. “The boy is dead, and the man will now live.”

He explains that only one night had passed and that this was a rite of passage into manhood. Over the next several years, you are taught how to live as a man, take care of yourself and your tribe, and use your natural talents to attract a woman and live a fulfilled life.

Unveiling the Secret to Attracting Women

Were you able to find the secret? If you missed it, fear not. It’s not easy to spot—in both the story and the real world where you can use it to meet and attract the women you want.

The secret lies in the transformation from boyhood to manhood—the initiation that awakens your Masculine Magnetism. It’s about unlocking the qualities within you that naturally attract women.

David Tian’s Personal Journey to Masculine Magnetism

While I am a highly sought-after dating coach featured in international media, I wasn’t born this way. At 30, I was a social, romantic, and dating disaster.

Growing up in a conservative Chinese Christian family, no one ever talked to me about dating or being social. I had a 6 PM curfew until I was 18 and wasn’t allowed to have a girlfriend until halfway through university.

After finishing my first graduate degree, I married the first nice Christian girl who came along. She picked me, and I never felt like I had any real options. It wasn’t a surprise when everything fell apart a few years later, leaving me divorced, depressed, and alone.

I locked myself away in my lonely grad student dorm room, eating ramen noodles at my desk every night while others partied. Even if I could get to a party, I didn’t have a clue what to do or say to fit in. After nursing a beer, I’d slink back to my room and feel sorry for my pathetic social life.

After weeks of being in dating and social hell, I decided to take action. I was going to study the subject rigorously, just like my Ph.D. research. I aimed to figure out exactly what women truly wanted and devise a system to become the man they were looking for.

With the help of great mentors who were masters at meeting and attracting women, I eventually cracked the code. I understood exactly what women around the world— from Singapore to New York—really want in a man. I taught myself how to show them I had it without changing who I really was.

My life changed overnight.

I became almost drunk on my romantic, sexual, and relationship success, dating a different beautiful woman virtually every night—including an embarrassing number of Asia’s hottest women you’ve seen on billboards, in magazines, on TV shows, and in movies.

I decided to help other guys who could use what I’d learned. I started writing weekly dating columns in national newspapers, appearing on television shows in multiple countries, and even had my own national radio show.

Guys from all over the world wanted to learn everything I knew about how to be successful with women. But this wasn’t something I could teach in an afternoon or package in a book. That’s when I realized I was honor-bound to share this gift and organize everything I knew into a step-by-step, complete system.